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[Lisa Kachold]

I tend to ignore all such control-versy.

"Should" is a product of the codependent family model that also created:

black/white thinking
nothing handled in the solution
communicating to the wrong source

There's a saying, "Is someone is "should-ing" you, find and handle the 7
deadly sin type payoff"  (false pride, jealousy, rage, greed, gluttony,
vanity, lust).

Almost as fun as identifying the obvious signature of someone with ethical
problem in relation to you who always "project",  accusing you of doing
something their ego denial refuses to let them see/remember and apologise
for what they did to you.


On Wed, May 13, 2009 at 1:22 AM, Ed <plug at 0x1b.com> wrote:

> VVV
>
> On Tue, May 12, 2009 at 11:25 PM, der.hans <PLUGd at lufthans.com> wrote:
> > Am 12. Mai, 2009 schwätzte Mike Schwartz so:
> >
> >> On some lists, the TOPIC of "top posting" is a hot button topic -- at
> >> least
> >> for some readers / posters. (and never mind even mentioning trollers and
> >> flamers... yikes).
> >
> > It's a near-religious topic which seldom gets useful discussion.
> >
> >> As far as whether this is one of those lists, ask someone else.  But I
> >> think
> >> the last time someone tried to get a "consensus" within PLUG-discuss, on
> >> whether to "top post" or "bottom post", I think the "consensus" was,
> >> umm...   something along the lines of, trying to "orchestrate"
> >> PLUG-discuss
> >> is like trying to herd cats...
> >
> > The general consensus is that people are going to do whatever they want.
> > I think it's also generally realized that no matter what method someone
> > uses there will people who think it's the right way and there will be
> > people who think it's the wrong way.
> >
> > In any case, write for your audience.
> >
> > Also, there is no need to start a thread on this topic :).
> >
> > ciao,
> >
> > der.hans
> > --
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> > #  I've got a photographic memory,
> > #  but I'm lousy photographer. - der.hans
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> my bad - apologies
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