So after going through 3 Netgear routers in one year. (One died, another got compromised, and the other just couldn't consistently stay online) and sticking with Linksys which seems to be doing the job okay, but can't handle the load at times.

Requirements from most important to least important.
- Multiband and handle large network traffic (3 TVs, ~4 Smart Phones, and 1 Linux Gaming/Work Desktop) and possibly light server for personal ususage.
- Advanced Parental/Access controls.
- Ability to set the power level of wifi range.

I appreciate any suggestions. Thanks!