I was backing up my primary boxes home directory to the office computer. Well, it was decided to turn that computer into an entertainment center so xbmc was put on it about 4 weeks ago. I then figured I would back up everything like I did before. 
I just remembered that when this happened before I had to install a program. I thought a google search would reveal the answer but was wrong. What program do I need to apt-get? I think it is ssh-server?
:-)~MIKE~(-:

rsync -vva --exclude=/home/bmike1/Pictures/* --exclude=.*mozilla* --exclude=.*chromium* ~/ xbmc@192.168.0.3:/home/xbmc/;rsync -vva --exclude=/home/bmike1/Pictures/* --exclude=.*mozilla* --exclude=.*chromium* xbmc@192.168.0.3:/home/xbmc/ ~/
opening connection using: ssh -l xbmc 192.168.0.3 rsync --server -vvlogDtpre.iLsf . /home/xbmc/ 
ssh: connect to host 192.168.0.3 port 22: Connection refused
rsync: connection unexpectedly closed (0 bytes received so far) [sender]
rsync error: unexplained error (code 255) at io.c(605) [sender=3.0.9]
opening connection using: ssh -l xbmc 192.168.0.3 rsync --server --sender -vvlogDtpre.iLsf . /home/xbmc/ 
ssh: connect to host 192.168.0.3 port 22: Connection refused
rsync: connection unexpectedly closed (0 bytes received so far) [Receiver]
rsync error: unexplained error (code 255) at io.c(605) [Receiver=3.0.9]