I just remembered that when this happened before I had to install a program. I thought a google search would reveal the answer but was wrong. What program do I need to apt-get? I think it is ssh-server?
rsync -vva --exclude=/home/bmike1/Pictures/* --exclude=.*mozilla* --exclude=.*chromium* ~/ xbmc@192.168.0.3:/home/xbmc/;rsync -vva --exclude=/home/bmike1/Pictures/* --exclude=.*mozilla* --exclude=.*chromium* xbmc@192.168.0.3:/home/xbmc/ ~/
opening connection using: ssh -l xbmc 192.168.0.3 rsync --server -vvlogDtpre.iLsf . /home/xbmc/
ssh: connect to host 192.168.0.3 port 22: Connection refused
rsync: connection unexpectedly closed (0 bytes received so far) [sender]
rsync error: unexplained error (code 255) at io.c(605) [sender=3.0.9]
opening connection using: ssh -l xbmc 192.168.0.3 rsync --server --sender -vvlogDtpre.iLsf . /home/xbmc/
ssh: connect to host 192.168.0.3 port 22: Connection refused
rsync: connection unexpectedly closed (0 bytes received so far) [Receiver]
rsync error: unexplained error (code 255) at io.c(605) [Receiver=3.0.9]