After brian said opessh-server I remembered that is what I had to do before. So I installed it and now it says:

@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@
@    WARNING: REMOTE HOST IDENTIFICATION HAS CHANGED!     @
@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@
IT IS POSSIBLE THAT SOMEONE IS DOING SOMETHING NASTY!
Someone could be eavesdropping on you right now (man-in-the-middle attack)!
It is also possible that a host key has just been changed.
The fingerprint for the ECDSA key sent by the remote host is
5a:e4:46:fb:6e:52:a4:74:15:fd:d5:83:1c:63:01:74.
Please contact your system administrator.
Add correct host key in /home/bmike1/.ssh/known_hosts to get rid of this message.
Offending ECDSA key in /home/bmike1/.ssh/known_hosts:1
  remove with: ssh-keygen -f "/home/bmike1/.ssh/known_hosts" -R 192.168.0.3
ECDSA host key for 192.168.0.3 has changed and you have requested strict checking.
Host key verification failed.

So to add it would I:

cat /home/bmike1/.ssh/known_hosts:1>>5a:e4:46:fb:6e:52:a4:74:15:fd:d5:83:1c:63:01:74

???
:-)~MIKE~(-:


On Mon, Sep 10, 2012 at 6:08 AM, kitepilot@kitepilot.com <kitepilot@kitepilot.com> wrote:
I'd try first:
telnet 192.168.0.3 22
That will validate that the remote SSH server is listening.
If it is not, nothing else will work.
YMMV...
ET


Amit Nepal writes:
"ssh: connect to host 192.168.0.3 port 22: Connection refused"  .. can you check if the ssh server is listening on port 22 ? to me it looks like either the ssh port is changed to something else or the firewall is blocking port 22 .. if the port is non default, you might want to use rsync -P<options>e "ssh -p <portNumber> ...................

Thanks
*Amit K Nepal
Infrastructure Engineer (RHCE)
omNovia Technologies Inc. <http://www.omnovia.com>
Amit K Nepal <http://www.amitnepal.com>
<http://www.amitnepal.com>*

On 9/10/2012 12:09 AM, Michael Havens wrote:
ssh: connect to host 192.168.0.3 port 22: Connection refused

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