After brian said opessh-server I remembered that is what I had to do
before. So I installed it and now it says:

@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@
@    WARNING: REMOTE HOST IDENTIFICATION HAS CHANGED!     @
@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@
IT IS POSSIBLE THAT SOMEONE IS DOING SOMETHING NASTY!
Someone could be eavesdropping on you right now (man-in-the-middle attack)!
It is also possible that a host key has just been changed.
The fingerprint for the ECDSA key sent by the remote host is
5a:e4:46:fb:6e:52:a4:74:15:fd:d5:83:1c:63:01:74.
Please contact your system administrator.
Add correct host key in /home/bmike1/.ssh/known_hosts to get rid of this
message.
Offending ECDSA key in /home/bmike1/.ssh/known_hosts:1
  remove with: ssh-keygen -f "/home/bmike1/.ssh/known_hosts" -R 192.168.0.3
ECDSA host key for 192.168.0.3 has changed and you have requested strict
checking.
Host key verification failed.

So to add it would I:

cat
/home/bmike1/.ssh/known_hosts:1>>5a:e4:46:fb:6e:52:a4:74:15:fd:d5:83:1c:63:01:74

???
:-)~MIKE~(-:


On Mon, Sep 10, 2012 at 6:08 AM, kitepilot@kitepilot.com <
kitepilot@kitepilot.com> wrote:

> I'd try first:
> telnet 192.168.0.3 22
> That will validate that the remote SSH server is listening.
> If it is not, nothing else will work.
> YMMV...
> ET
>
>
> Amit Nepal writes:
>
>> "ssh: connect to host 192.168.0.3 port 22: Connection refused"  .. can
>> you check if the ssh server is listening on port 22 ? to me it looks like
>> either the ssh port is changed to something else or the firewall is
>> blocking port 22 .. if the port is non default, you might want to use rsync
>> -P<options>e "ssh -p <portNumber> ...................
>>
>> Thanks
>> *Amit K Nepal
>> Infrastructure Engineer (RHCE)
>> omNovia Technologies Inc. <http://www.omnovia.com>
>> Amit K Nepal <http://www.amitnepal.com>
>> <http://www.amitnepal.com>*
>>
>> On 9/10/2012 12:09 AM, Michael Havens wrote:
>>
>>> ssh: connect to host 192.168.0.3 port 22: Connection refused
>>>
>>
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