On Wednesday 28 March 2007, you wrote: > As someone who joined this list at 15 (I won't be 16 until July), I think > it's appropriate here for me to add my "two cents." > > I've seen a few "flames" and a few clashes of opinion on this mailing list > since joining, but for the most part, that's been unintimidating. A mailing > list is an easy forum to walk away from. Flames typically aren't directed > at me, and so as someone watching from the sides, I don't observe anything > other than just people. People don't get along sometimes. That's just the > way it works. > > Another aspect of this list, in my opinion, that diminishes the potential > abrasiveness of so-called flames is that this list is so informally > structured. Because it is, there really are no "higher ups." This list > basically consists of either newbies or old-timers, but as far as I can > tell, it doesn't say which is better than other. Respect is earned not > simply through technical knowledge, but through helpfulness and personal > presentation. Because of this, if I'm faced with a personal insult, I can > handle it because it's just some guy; he doesn't mean anything, he doesn't > lead the group, he may not even provide direction for the group. In a > community where there are no formal leaders, there can also be no > individual who is completely reflective of the community. > > The other thing, maybe for me, is that before I really started > participating in this list, I attended a meeting and an installfest or two. > Attending those allowed me to meet many individuals who belong to this > list, and seeing them in an environment based around simple helpfulness at > installfests or sharing of knowledge at a meeting reminds you that the > ultimate goals of the members of this list are essentially the same: simple > participation, simple community, and that despite whatever views clash and > however brusque any particular member is, this list consists of people that > have feelings, moral judgements, and a general good will towards each > other. > > I specifically remember the first meeting I attended, there was supposed to > be a brief presentation on desktop acceleration. I had no history with this > group, I wasn't active on the mailing list. I said I had done a little > playing around with XGL and AIGLX, and thought I might be able to add > something to the presentation, or show a few tricks. The so-called > "leaders" of PLUG just let me (at least try to) do my thing without > considering my age or my lack of history with the group. This group is full > of knowledgeable, helpful, and ultimately (and most importantly) genuinely > good people. If you haven't seen this or noticed this, I encourage you to > attend a meeting or an installfest, and see for yourself. > > You may find friendly faces more inviting than dark words on a bright > screen, even if you've already found the list itself to be inviting. > > --Patrick C. > I appreciate what you say. Well spoken. I do not disagree with you, this group is very impressive with its ability to help out. I live a few hours away, so I can't make it to any meetings, though some day I would like to. The only thing I ever managed to make it to was a lunch at a park in Awahtukee a few years ago. Which was a lot of fun, but I've never made it to a meeting or installfest! Nathan -- -------------------------------------------------------------- PaysonLinux User Group Community Based Linux Support http://www.paysonlinux.org/ Business Consulting Services, Advanced Network and Server Design, Security Solutions, Process Management and Efficiency Consultations --------------------------------------------------- PLUG-discuss mailing list - PLUG-discuss@lists.plug.phoenix.az.us To subscribe, unsubscribe, or to change you mail settings: http://lists.PLUG.phoenix.az.us/mailman/listinfo/plug-discuss