craig don't know you, but general advice would be; take out any body piercings you may have b4 going to see the g/f. cover any tatoos., don't honk the horn - go to the door. ie, be an 'eddy haskell' to the mom ( " gee mrs ________ you look great today ;-) ) good luck :-[ betty i -- Observare porta non oportet fila domestica visit www.wolfila.homestead.com